After rape allegations at Cornell University, why are women again being urged to talk to their sons? Why not men? | Gaby Hinsliff

Boys learn by watching how the men they respect treat their partners, female colleagues, women on the street. Now is the time for those men to step upThere were seven men in all, and it lasted almost seven hours.What followed, according to the woman at the heart of the Cornell University case that has gripped student campuses around the world, was less a sexual encounter than a grim pack-bonding exercise fuelled by booze and ketamine, in which she was passed around like a blow-up doll.Gaby Hinsl